Spring and summer breaks are more than just a time to relax or escape the school grind—they’re golden opportunities to help your high schooler (or even your middle schooler!) discover their perfect college fit.

Trust me, there is such a thing as the ideal college, and finding it is worth the effort. After all, this will be their home for the next four years—you wouldn’t just throw a dart on a map to pick your house, so why approach college decisions any differently?

Why visit colleges?

Every student is unique, and their college should reflect that. Is your student an introvert who thrives in smaller, discussion-based classes? Or an extrovert who lights up in large, energetic lecture halls? Do they crave the buzz of an urban campus surrounded by restaurants and museums, or do they prefer the serene vibe of a rural setting? Exploring campuses in person lets students feel the “vibe” of a place—something no online research or brochure can capture. This is their chance to imagine life there and ask, “Can I see myself here?”

When should I start?

The answer is simple: it’s never too early. Yes, even 8th graders can benefit from casual college visits. Why wait until junior or senior year? Students often tell me they know right away when a campus feels “right” or “wrong.” Visiting various campuses—large, small, urban, rural—can help narrow down preferences early. Plus, starting sooner means less stress when decision time comes.

How do I plan a visit?

A college visit doesn’t have to be a formal tour. On your next family vacation, make a point to walk or drive through a local college campus—it’s a low-pressure way to gauge interest and rule out options. You can even start with nearby colleges to identify what your student doesn’t like. When your student hits junior year, spring break is the perfect time to add formal tours to the mix.

Pro Tip: Keep notes.

Encourage your student to jot down details—likes, dislikes, and overall impressions. Over time, these notes will become invaluable in narrowing down choices.

So, this spring or summer, pack your bags, plan some detours, and turn your downtime into discovery time. Who knows? You might help your student find the place where they’ll thrive, grow, and make lifelong memories!